Happy Halloween!

Wow! Life has been incredibly busy lately. I started class again in September and, although I only have one class this semester and am not teaching this year, I have started working on the literature review and preparations for my dissertation. The result is that I never feel "done" and always have more I could be doing.

The potty training continues. She wears underwear while awake and really has no problems, but we're still working on the finer points of it, so the sticker chart continues (for dry diapers at night and a BM on the potty) with an ice cream outing whenever she completes a row. Chocolate brownie is the flavor of choice; I assume she does not see the irony in that.

We also joined our local gym when Mateo became old enough to go into the child care center there last month; the kids and I go several days a week (I’m almost back to my pre-pregnancy weight!) and Agustín takes Emilia to the pool at least twice a week. She’s becoming a fearless little swimmer! So, life is busy, but good….very good.

As a reward (i.e. bribe) for being such a good flower girl, Emilia got a pink doctor's kit, and has been doing a great job of keeping H1N1 out of our house. Her favorite tool in the kit is the "stefacope."

Just a few weeks ago we said goodbye to "Tío Jojo" and "Tía Tara" as they headed off to Chile to start their own adventure travel company (see www.KnowmadAdventures.com).

Emilia has been enjoying the lead-up to Halloween, with opportunities to wear a costume to her school party, a parade at the gym, and trick-or-treating. She’s worn a different costume each time! That makes sense, since if you ask her what her favorite letters are, she responds very quickly, “E for Emilia and C for costume.” She has gone to three childrens plays and has decided she wants to be an actor when she grows up. Specifically, she wants to be Louanne the pig in the play “I Like Me” (based on the book by the same name). And Yaya has fueled her love of costumes by taking her into every second-hand store she sees and not coming out without something shiny, sparkly, frilly or fancy. They even got Mateo a great little dinosaur costume, which has seen its share of wear this week.

The photo above and below are from a recent trip to the Children's Museum (Mateo's first!).

Mateo is getting big quickly; he’ll be five months next week. He’s working very hard on moving—he rolls over, pulls his legs under his stomach and pushes forward, does a no-handed downward dog, and generally does whatever he can to propel himself wherever he wants to go. He loves to practice standing up and is rocking the exersaucer. He’s losing his hair in a very interesting pattern, leaving a dark mohawk and crown on his head. He’s quite a talker, very ticklish, and laughs a lot. He’s sucking his left thumb just like his big sister, and we think the blue eyes are here to stay, just like his papa’s. Oh, and last but certainly not least, he sleeps 11-12 hours straight at night.

My parents babysit every Monday afternoon/evening while I'm at class until Agustín gets home from work. Last week they tackled the great pumpkin project with the kids (and yes, my dad is wearing Zubazz....no comment).

Emilia models her Halloween costume, a "flying pink dragon."

Mateo in his halloween costume (although we'll wait until next year for him to go trick-or-treating).

The costume that Emilia chose to wear for her school halloween party. I have no idea what she's supposed to be, but she seemed to think she looked like someone from "Dancing with the Stars" (her favorite non-PBS show).

Flower Power

This past weekend we celebrated at the wedding of my brother Jordan and his new bride, Tara (with whom I now share a first name, middle initial, and last name). One of the highlights was Emilia as the flower girl. We were worried how she would do, especially after a meltdown at the rehearsal. It didn’t help that she decided this past week to rebel against the nap. But, despite all this, she did an amazing job! She was completely concentrated on her basket of petals during the long walk up the aisle, except for when the photographer stepped in front of her to snap a picture—she stopped, looked right into the camera, and smiled! Unfortunately I was so focused on getting her to walk down the aisle to me, I didn’t get a great picture. Hopefully the photographer did. Anyway, here are a few of the better pictures we did snap.

The happy couple at the rehearsal dinner

My other brother, and the best man, Devin, and girlfriend Noelle

Congratulations Tara & Jordan! Next month they’ll be moving to Chile to start the next chapter of their life together and we wish them all the best.

Cousins Megan and Amy

The Scotts

Mateo’s First Swim & Woodstock Revival

Here are a few photos from Mateo’s first dip in the swimming pool last week. He didn’t love it when I laid him on his back and got his ears a little wet, but was pretty content being held in my arms with the water up to his thighs.

Last week we also enjoyed a concert at Lake Harriet celebrating the anniversary of Woodstock with some of my family. Emilia LOVED dancing to the music with her “cousins” (technically my cousin’s kids). When she easily talked my mom into buying her a tie-dyed dress at one of the stands, all the other girls begged their parents to do the same….what a trend setter!

Can’t believe I finally got a half decent shot of me with my two kids!

Quite possibly one of my favorite pictures of Emilia of all time!

Flower Girl in Training

Emilia practices for the flower girl duties she'll have at my brother's wedding next month, with the help of her (formerly my) Easter basket and some "practice petals" that came with a great flower girl book from my friend AnnMarie, who works for Scholastic (thanks Ann!).

And one of Mateo, of course, chillin' on the boat.

More Summer Fun

Here are some more pictures of our latest summer fun. I don't think they need too much explanation (nor do I have time to give it), other than maybe to say that Emilia has been very into "costumes" lately (the shinier, the better). Oh, and regarding that last photo, all I can say is my husband is weird.

The Latest Developments

Mateo is now two months old and started rolling over from front to back a few weeks ago (see proof in photo sequence above). We’ve put him down on numerous occasions for “tummy time” only to turn around a few minutes later and find him on his back. He wants to move! He also scoots around when on his stomach, pushing against the floor with his feet and causing him to move in a wide U-turn.

Emilia is also at a developmental milestone, making big strides in potty training. We introduced the idea a year ago, but have not pushed it much. She has been more than ready for awhile though, and needs to be in underwear by this fall if she wants to move into the next age group at her school. I didn’t want to do too much with potty training around the time of Mateo’s birth, but now that we’re settled in a bit, it’s time. A little over a week ago we made the switch to “big girl” underwear during the day (other than at naptime) and it’s going pretty well. A few accidents here and there early on, but we haven’t had one in about a week. Yay, Emilia! I have to consciously give her a lot of liquids, however, or she doesn’t ever seem to have to go while awake and instead just fills her diaper during naptime and at night. Below, Emilia shows off her “potty chart” (which is now almost full of stickers!). For every five stickers she gets, she gets to go out to Ben & Jerry’s with mom or dad. We took other photos to document the potty training process, but it doesn’t seem appropriate to post them on the web. ;)

Summer Fun

People keep asking how life with two kids is going. Apart from the fact that I don’t have time to do much like update this blog, clean the house, do the writing I had planned to do this summer, or have much “adult” time, I think it’s going pretty well. Emilia and Mateo and I are kind of getting into a weekday routine, which usually includes a fun outing or activity in the late morning and quieter time at home (well, Emilia is quieter because she naps in the afternoon; Mateo usually sleeps through the morning outing and is fussy during the afternoon, but it’s quiet in the sense that I only have him to deal with) in the afternoon. Mateo is a bit fussier than we remember Emilia being as a baby—lots of spitting up and gas is the likely culprit—but his cute face makes up for it. He's also started smiling more deliberately and is holding his head up for long stretches.

Here are a few of my favorite photos of our latest summer fun.

Princess Serious

Mateo getting his smile on!

Grandpa and his babies (including Emilia's baby doll, Lilly)

The gang tries out the new tent Yaya just bought